Yeah a PvP server is kinda rough. I haven't played on a PvE server at all, so I dont know what you have to deal with. I'm assuming you dont ever have to pvp unless you throw the flag on. I kinda like getting ganked. There's really no big penalty for dieing, and most graveyards are close enough that you're up and fighting within 1 minute anyways.
Last night was my most fun night so far. Man I must've died like 15 times, but I got a few kills in. Been playing my warlock and grouping with my brother, a 20 hunter. We went into Stonetalon Mts (contested territory, means everyone is pvp enabled) last night to hunt. Had a good time, ran past a few Alliance that were 50+ and they left us alone (thanks guys!). I got a quest in some retreat (can't remember the name) and when I returned to complete it, the whole friggin fort was getting slaughtered by a small group of alliance members! Pretty sure they were all 55+. My brother tells me to run..... but of course I wanna watch! They noticed us and decided to make us pay for our "intrusion" I guess...... didn't realize you could die that quickly.

Found a lvl 20 night elf hunter after we got our bodies so we decided that payback would be taken upon that poor fellow. We chased him down into Windshear Crag.... I feel so bad for my poor brother.... he sucks at pvp (this is his first mmorpg and his talent points are spread all over the place). He got killed by the hunter, but I dropped him after that. I had him all dotted up and feared off his pet! Was a great time! He returned later and jumped us after we rezzed in and killed us both. We returned the favor, and got it returned to us again! He left after a little while, and some 35 warlock happened across our paths.... dead. Then another hunter, 35+ this time, found us a little farther down the path. Man we couldn't stop dieing! I think I spent more time as a ghost in stonetalon then in regular form!

That's what I hope a typical night will be like from now on! NPC's don't offer up any challenges, so I want human opponents. This game isn't a big grief-fest even though I thought it would be. I'm glad my friend convinced me to join on a pvp server.... not nearly as frustrating as EQ was. Oh yeah, and when we returned to the crossroads last night, there was a huge raid on it..... about 10 or so lvl 55+ Alliance were killing everything..... mass amounts of low levels were suiciding against them! That's interactive content for ya!
So if you didn't think playing on a PvP server would be fun (because of all the "bnet kiddies") then think a little harder about it. Sure there's plenty of jerks.... but /ignore works wonders, and most of them are usually PL'd to 60, so you dont really see too many. They get bored fast. Plus, you can stay in "horde territory" and you can't be pvp'd.... so you can safely level up to a certain point. This isn't EQ, there's no rush to 60 here. Kinda funny though that most people outlevel an area THEN come back for pvp when they know their opponents will be 10+ levels lower than them. /shrug